How do I expedite the no's?
I'm skipping over the part where we accept and embrace the fact that we are going to receive boatloads of no's in our adventures. That's a given.
Taking that a step further, we want to get through all of the no's as quickly as possible so that the yes's come through loud and clear.
What have I learned from Harry Potter and Bugs Bunny about decision making?
For a hypothetical argument's sake, let's make the assumption that everyone is making the best decisions that they can with the information that they have. Most people, most of the time, aren't making decisions that they think are bad or wrong. We're all doing the best we can with what we got.